Some family members of residents, such as adult children, may also be practising health professionals such as doctors, physiotherapists, nurses or some other branch of the health sector. This can sometimes give rise to significant ethical or clinical conundrums for aged care staff and management.
Because of their professional expertise, these adult children, for example, can often believe they know best when it comes to the care of their parent. However, when their health expertise is blended with their role as a family member, it can blur the line of demarcation between their head and their heart.
This can result in conflict between the adult child and the facility and even with the resident’s treating health professional. In other cases, simply for the sake of peace, it can lead staff in a facility to compromise their duty and to give in to the demands of the child. Even treating health professionals can be tempted to defer to their “colleague” when it comes to the appropriate care for mum or dad.
In a recent example, a resident’s daughter was a doctor who had strong views about the appropriate medical care required for her mother, which views were not always shared by her mother’s treating GP. As a result, the resident had a history of churning her GP’s usually at the instigation of her doctor daughter. Any treating GP who did not agree with the doctor daughter was promptly ‘shown the door’.
Remarkably, one treating GP, aware of the dynamics and averse to conflict or confrontation, requested the facility not to implement any of his medical directives for the resident unless they were also approved by the doctor daughter.
This is a vexing area for aged care providers but here are some thoughts to consider: - Doctors and other health professionals should not let their personal family relationships interfere with their professional ethical obligations;
- Treating health professionals should resist the pressure to ingratiate themselves with ‘colleagues’ who are family members of residents;
- For a child of a resident who is a health professional, aged care staff should be aware of the appropriate line between a health professional’s ethical duties and their personal family rights and responsibilities.
There are many other scenarios that we have come across on this subject and which form the basis of a presentation we give entitled “Doctor/Daughter” which explores the legal and ethical conundrums that aged care staff face in this difficult work life dynamic |